Today is my birthday…

As I celebrate another trip around the sun, I find myself reflecting on the transformative journey of the last few years.

2021 - Scattered Self

In 2021, despite external success, I felt a persistent dissatisfaction. This prompted me to embark on a 2022 "adult gap year" in pursuit of a more fulfilling life.

2022 - Centered Self

The year 2022 became a pivotal chapter in my life. I broke free of past conditioning and old stories, learning to become my own best friend. This meant prioritizing my physical, mental, emotional and spiritual well-being first. The positive impacts from attending to myself resonated across all aspects of my life, making it one of the most rewarding years to date.

Taking this time away was crucial for recentering and rediscovering my identity at the mid-point of life. However, the solitude also revealed my inherent need for authentic human connection.

2023 - Relational Self

Entering 2023, my intention was to engage in relationships from the centered place I discovered in 2022. But the journey was far from easy. Every twist and turn seemed to trigger unconscious relational wounds and patterns, challenging my commitment to honor my centered self.

The beauty of the time I spent away in 2022 was the clarity it provided. I was now fully aware of being pulled off-center, so I chose to voice my hurt and needs authentically. This process, though rarely flawless, led to the evolution of some important relationships and the inevitable loss of others. #stillgrieving

So, what lies ahead for me in 2024? Community.

2024 - Connected Self

My focus for the year is to fully engage with the world from a centered self way. Will I get it right every time? Probably not, but I am dedicated to navigating the unpredictable path ahead with openness in order to enjoy authentic, symbiotic connection. I invite you to join me.

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